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Does your empathic nature leave you vulnerable to others’ narcissism, gaslighting, or manipulation? Download my FREE roadmap to becoming a boundary-setting goddess and begin shifting this dynamic…all from a place of compassion, integrity, and self-respect.

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My mission is to help: (1) empathic seekers design lives that align with their souls’ purpose and transcend any barriers that they may face; and (2) women entangled with narcissistic ex-partners to set boundaries and reclaim their lives. Where would you like to start?

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Boundaries are essential to living life on your terms. Download my FREE roadmap and start standing your ground.

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Do some souls leave you drained, ungrounded, & stressed TF out? Get an email from me every day for 7 days with self-care practices designed to help you recover from interactions with incredibly challenging people.

"It is a great service to others that Kristi so openly shares her knowledge and wisdom."

“Kristi is truly among the kindest, most loving, and openly honest humans you’ll encounter. Experiencing Kristi’s work has been a true pleasure. She has invested a significant amount of time and effort towards her own personal growth. It is a great service to others that Kristi so openly shares her knowledge and wisdom.”

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Boundary-Setting Goddess Mentoring/Coaching

Do you struggle to set boundaries with a particularly difficult person? Someone who manipulates, gaslights, belittles, or rages at you when you try to stand your ground?

In Boundary-Setting Goddess Mentoring/Coaching sessions we’ll uncover your unique challenges to setting powerful boundaries from a place of compassion and love…while staying calm and grounded in the process.

Setting boundaries is very dear to my heart and an area that I’ve had to work very hard on with a mentor in my own life over the years, and I’d be honored to pass on what I’ve learned to you.

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My Name's Kristi

My journey began in 1996 when I barely survived a suicide attempt and has involved some pretty wild adventures in the areas of boundary-setting, forgiving others, embracing uncertainty, and developing the courage to live life on my own terms.

“One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else’s survival guide.” -Brené Brown

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Illuminated Goddess Transformative Coaching

I’m here to help you realize your potential. Do you have blocks that are keeping you from living the life you know you were meant to live? A life of deep integrity that’s aligned with your soul? 

Are you yearning to uncover and fulfill your life’s purpose? To gain the courage to set unwavering boundaries? To uncover the gifts cloaked in hardship and uncertainty? This is where I come in. Click below to apply for your FREE first coaching call!