Welcome! My name's Kristi.

My mission is to: (1) help empathic seekers design lives that align with their souls’ purpose and transcend any barriers that they may face in the process; and (2) help women entangled with narcissistic ex-partners to set boundaries and reclaim their lives.

Do you yearn to design a life that's aligned with your soul's purpose?

I help clients through both my Illuminated Goddess Transformative Coaching sessions and Boundary-Setting Goddess Mentoring/Coaching sessions. And I share what’s worked for me through my blog, digital offerings, courses, and the Illuminated Goddess podcast.

For the past 25 years I've embarked on the quest of taking radical ownership of my life.

In the process, I’ve honed the skills necessary to help you do the same. What I offer isn’t for the faint of heart – there’s a lot of introspection and work involved! But what reward’s greater than the fulfillment that comes from living your purpose?! 

When you work with me, you'll learn how to tap into and trust your internal compass as you courageously transform your life.

When you work with me, you’ll feel seen and heard. My approach is designed to help you develop the courage to live life on your terms and may involve setting boundaries, tapping into (and trusting) your intuition, and letting go of what no longer serves you. And, I’ll help you to understand, respect, and overcome the hurdles that keep you from fulfilling your dharma (greater purpose).

You’ll learn some powerful tools for accessing your innate wisdom that may very well blow your mind. My approach is informed by Martha Beck’s Wayfinder program, seven years of working weekly with my mentor, other personal development work, and in-depth study of yogic and Vedic philosophies and their applications. And, it’s guided by compassion, integrity, and love.

My Favorite Things

Being Barefoot Outside

new moon campfires + vino

Meditating with incense

Earth goddess dresses

& Playing my guitar

My core values are:

Integrity, compassion, love, growth, and gratitude, without condition. A strong sense of self-awareness allows me to recalibrate quickly when I respond from a place of fear or my actions aren’t aligned with my values.

I'm not about:

Focusing on the problem, co-signing on drama, or spiritually bypassing “negative” feelings. I have finely honed drama detectors and drama repellent (aka boundaries), and I can help you develop yours, too.

My daily rituals include:

Spending time connecting deeply with nature, meditating, doing yoga and pranayama, practicing gratitude, and doing the little things that bring me fulfillment (like playing my guitar). I trust my intuition deeply and let it guide me.

Work with me

Boundary-Setting Goddess Mentoring

Do you struggle to set boundaries with a narcissistic ex-partner that you can’t cut out of your life? Someone who manipulates, gaslights, belittles, or rages at you when you try to stand your ground?

In Boundary-Setting Goddess Mentoring/Coaching sessions we’ll uncover your unique challenges to setting powerful boundaries from a place of compassion and love…all while staying calm and grounded.

Setting boundaries is very dear to my heart and an area that I’ve had to work very hard on (with a mentor!) in my own life over the years, and I’d be honored to share what I’ve learned with you.

"I love seeing strong women holding space...I felt so held while having the opportunity to explore deeper parts of myself."

I want to get calm & grounded

I want to get better at setting boundaries

I want to have a 1:1 mentoring session